The Path of Results.

Have you ever wondered why the divorce rate in the United States is around 50%? From personal experience I would say the fundamental problem is a total breakdown in communication. Once the initial romance has come out of cloud 9 and come down to earth the reality of life kicks in. as human beings we rarely see ourselves as the problem when things start to go wrong.

Some call it the 90 – 10 rule, when we meet our soul mate we tend only to see the 90% good things in our partner and overlook the 10% not so good things about that person. What we fail to realize is that God sees us the way he created us which is perfect. The 10% are things we tend to create in our own minds as imperfections.

When things start to go wrong in a relationship and communication starts to break down we tend to magnify the 10% and no longer see the 90%. The problem is never me, it’s always you.

In many relationships couples seem to be arguing about many things but when you look closely it always come down to one thing. The argument is usually about who’s not wrong. Most people fight with each other because they think they’re trying to be right but what they’re really trying to do is not be wrong.

Just like the game tag we used to play as kids, each person in the relationship is desperately trying to not be it.

The same is true with the relationships you have with your sibling, friends and co-workers.

It is imperative that you learn to love yourself first before you enter into a relationship. Let’s face it, if you don’t love yourself how can you possibly expect someone else to love you?

So take a good long look at yourself and try to figure out what it is about you that would make you attractive to a potential soul mate. Once you have figured that out, you need to maintain that charisma. That will automatically nourish the energy of your soul mate, raising the bar of awareness.

In a nutshell be the person you want to be and you will attract into your life the person you want to be with.

When you think positive thoughts your vibrations are immediately lifted, don’t just think these thought speak to your soul mate tell them how you feel about them, what it is that make you love them more and more each day, this will raise their vibration and they will feel compelled to tell you what it is that they love about you.

By maintaining this mutual affection you will create a powerful, positive bond.

It all comes back to this; your thoughts control your feelings, your feeling move you to take action, your actions bring results. So if you think of all the reasons you love your soul mate (and tell them), you will feel passionate love for them; this in turn will cause you to do the little things you know they love and that will make them do the same things in return.

Listen closely, not only to what your soul mate is saying but try to feel what that person is thinking.

You really need to connect, not just on a verbal level but also on an emotional level.